Here’s the thing. If it is a regularly used account, it comes up with your *name* as default. So I would have seen it pop up as Starfishstar. I see everyone else’s that way unless the gmail decides it doesn’t “know” them yet. So that was what I couldn’t get past. (Especially now. I’m in Weird Brain Mode) No I absolutely got that I needed to STOP before I saw the doc…and yes I did and already was laughing at that point!

Someone else at that time was Jewish, and was part of the discussion, but I can’t for the life of me remember who. And at least one newer person is as well. I remember it feeling like a rather high amount, given my previous fandom experiences, and of course we have a lot of folks here who are of other non-Christian belief systems, and I just love having that sort of inclusion that seems so difficult for me to find at this time. And the religious community here is always going on about it being minor, yeah, but I saw an article about how in many ways it’s a Diaspora/marginalized Holiday, and I like that framework. Thank you!!! (And Sick Brain was busy writing out a Christmas/Chanukah dinner at their apartment and got pretty far into it too before I just yelled “Sleep! I am not writing any of this down!”